I think more to the point, any man with a jawline and nose like that would have to be gayer than Vergil. Even with her face scrunched up you can tell that has to be a woman. It would take thousands of dollars and hundreds of hours worth of expensive bone-scraping for even a Roguey-style ****** to approach that facial structure.rusty_shackleford wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 20:02Vergil wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 19:55You're actually gayer than me if you believe thatrusty_shackleford wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 19:05
You're just posting this because minthara looks and sounds like a guy
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You're not required to find a way to agree with vergil on every issueStack of Turtles wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 20:06I think more to the point, any man with a jawline and nose like that would have to be gayer than Vergil. Even with her face scrunched up you can tell that has to be a woman. It would take thousands of dollars and hundreds of hours worth of expensive bone-scraping for even a Roguey-style ****** to approach that facial structure.
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So cute. Don't be mad that my girl is a princess and yours takes cocks in excess.rusty_shackleford wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 20:02Vergil wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 19:55You're actually gayer than me if you believe thatrusty_shackleford wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 19:05
You're just posting this because minthara looks and sounds like a guy
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I'm just stating the facts.
Question is are you going to gargle the truth or swallow?
Question is are you going to gargle the truth or swallow?
oh, thanks for letting me know, I'll keep that in mindrusty_shackleford wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 20:09You're not required to find a way to agree with vergil on every issueStack of Turtles wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 20:06I think more to the point, any man with a jawline and nose like that would have to be gayer than Vergil. Even with her face scrunched up you can tell that has to be a woman. It would take thousands of dollars and hundreds of hours worth of expensive bone-scraping for even a Roguey-style ****** to approach that facial structure.
I do agree on this specific case though
well I agree she doesn't look like a man, I don't have an opinion on the rest and I don't believe he really romances her anyway (Astarion exists)
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Minthara is ugly. Case closed.
But Astarion is... a man... tooStack of Turtles wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 20:13oh, thanks for letting me know, I'll keep that in mindrusty_shackleford wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 20:09You're not required to find a way to agree with vergil on every issueStack of Turtles wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 20:06
I think more to the point, any man with a jawline and nose like that would have to be gayer than Vergil. Even with her face scrunched up you can tell that has to be a woman. It would take thousands of dollars and hundreds of hours worth of expensive bone-scraping for even a Roguey-style ****** to approach that facial structure.
I do agree on this specific case though
well I agree she doesn't look like a man, I don't have an opinion on the rest and I don't believe he really romances her anyway (Astarion exists)

yes... we're talking about who Vergil would romance in BG3... so that's kind of the point...KOS-MOS wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 20:16But Astarion is... a man... tooStack of Turtles wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 20:13oh, thanks for letting me know, I'll keep that in mindrusty_shackleford wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 20:09
You're not required to find a way to agree with vergil on every issue
I do agree on this specific case though
well I agree she doesn't look like a man, I don't have an opinion on the rest and I don't believe he really romances her anyway (Astarion exists)
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I would say that she looks a bit "old" which definitely shouldn't be the case for any type of elf.rusty_shackleford wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 20:02Vergil wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 19:55You're actually gayer than me if you believe thatrusty_shackleford wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 19:05
You're just posting this because minthara looks and sounds like a guy
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That is literally just the wrinkles of the neck, because only old people have them.UltraFan123 wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 20:20I would say that she looks a bit "old" which definitely shouldn't be the case for any type of elf.
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KOS-MOS wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 20:16But Astarion is... a man... tooStack of Turtles wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 20:13oh, thanks for letting me know, I'll keep that in mindrusty_shackleford wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 20:09
You're not required to find a way to agree with vergil on every issue
I do agree on this specific case though
well I agree she doesn't look like a man, I don't have an opinion on the rest and I don't believe he really romances her anyway (Astarion exists)
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I'm just stating the facts.
Question is are you going to gargle the truth or swallow?
Question is are you going to gargle the truth or swallow?
I was looking more at her nose, those lines that go downwards towards the end of the lips.TKVNC wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 20:30That is literally just the wrinkles of the neck, because only old people have them.UltraFan123 wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 20:20I would say that she looks a bit "old" which definitely shouldn't be the case for any type of elf.
I always associated the lack of those with a more "youthful" appearance, especially on women's faces.
She sounds extremely sexy, kind of like a Koenigsegg CC850 twin turbo aluminum 5.0 L V8 running in low gear on a steep hill.Stack of Turtles wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 19:58She definitely doesn't look like a guy but I don't know what she sounds like yet. If either side will provide evidence, I will offer a neutral judgement.
She sounds like a smoker granny.Demonic Fate wrote: β May 28th, 2025, 10:17She sounds extremely sexy, kind of like a Koenigsegg CC850 twin turbo aluminum 5.0 L V8 running in low gear on a steep hill.Stack of Turtles wrote: β May 27th, 2025, 19:58She definitely doesn't look like a guy but I don't know what she sounds like yet. If either side will provide evidence, I will offer a neutral judgement.
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Great. I'll look forward to it.Kowe wrote: β May 26th, 2025, 17:50It's been an oversight on the normal version but am pretty sure it got fixed in the Better Companions one. The former will have it fixed with the upcoming update.orinEsque wrote: β May 25th, 2025, 19:00Maybe Even Better Romance modded that out? @Kowe ? NA doesn't touch companion interactions, just background.Trickster wrote: β May 25th, 2025, 15:28
******* brutal. Imagine being an actual victim of cheating IRL, or just wanting a sweet romance with Shadowheart, only to get force-fed the writers' cuckold fantasy.
How has no one modded out this cringe-fest of forced writing?
@Vergil I decided to give grandpa Astarion another chance and removed that vampiresque mod. 
She is an awful person, really. Why would anyone even want to romance this women? I'd rather play as a loner than have such βgirlfriendβ.
PS: But maybe....just maybe, she's done all of that to make tav/durge jealous and it's all just attempting to hide her insecurity and shyness?
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Her latent sexual fantasies still persist even if you never visit the Drow twins, to have the plot twist reveal. Since it was made by design by the writer @mrjohncorcoran, posted on his Twitter, the image below to confirm:

The "look" of betrayal they share with each other, to further prove that the animators doubled down on this, since this was added recent patches, either patch 6 or 7:

To emphasize this flaw in her character to feel more "real", framed as just "lack of self awareness" rather than a skin crawling feeling of emotional distress, and worst form of betrayal.
It seems that this is the "new normal". A woman that was written with the concept that sexual desire and emotional loyalty aren't mutually exclusive. Her only excuse is that "she doesn't act on it unless Tav consent to it", that further gives her the "perceived freedom" to say such shameless things.
The only way to prevent this from happening is by actually killing Halsin back in Act 1. And even then, she still written to be flawed, "realistic", and to embrace her "openness" post SelΓ»ne arc. Since she still says: "There's an idea. If you're comfortable sharing... so am I.", despite Halsin's absence and before Tav even consent to anything in the dialogue.
TL;DR: You're just her therapist in her own romance, while Halsin is the potential "dream hall pass". Absolutely unfair to the player.

The "look" of betrayal they share with each other, to further prove that the animators doubled down on this, since this was added recent patches, either patch 6 or 7:
To emphasize this flaw in her character to feel more "real", framed as just "lack of self awareness" rather than a skin crawling feeling of emotional distress, and worst form of betrayal.
It seems that this is the "new normal". A woman that was written with the concept that sexual desire and emotional loyalty aren't mutually exclusive. Her only excuse is that "she doesn't act on it unless Tav consent to it", that further gives her the "perceived freedom" to say such shameless things.
The only way to prevent this from happening is by actually killing Halsin back in Act 1. And even then, she still written to be flawed, "realistic", and to embrace her "openness" post SelΓ»ne arc. Since she still says: "There's an idea. If you're comfortable sharing... so am I.", despite Halsin's absence and before Tav even consent to anything in the dialogue.
TL;DR: You're just her therapist in her own romance, while Halsin is the potential "dream hall pass". Absolutely unfair to the player.
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gaylords just chose the wrong woman, that's all
She shouldnβt even be a choice if her entire 'romance' is just some half-baked writerβs pathetic attempt to force-feed players their disgusting fetish.
He's literally so cuteKOS-MOS wrote: β May 28th, 2025, 15:27@Vergil I decided to give grandpa Astarion another chance and removed that vampiresque mod.![]()

I'm just stating the facts.
Question is are you going to gargle the truth or swallow?
Question is are you going to gargle the truth or swallow?
There's a mod called "Really Shadowheart" that basically fixes her inconsistencies that stops her from being a cheating degenerate (especially on her Selune path), such as her interactions with Halsin. Selune Shadowheart is also monogamous and shows disapproval when Tav sleeps with other women. I think Shar Shadowheart in the mod is more polygamous (such as being okay with the drow twin threesome). Tav can also propose to Shadowheart and she'll respond positively if Tav meets certain requirements along the story and the two can sleep (no sex) together on the same bed. Really good mod and didn't notice Shadowheart being a degenerate but is now wholesome tradwife material.Trickster wrote: β May 30th, 2025, 19:31She is an awful person, really. Why would anyone even want to romance this women? I'd rather play as a loner than have such βgirlfriendβ.
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Unfortunately, it seems that vanilla Shadowheart is a degenerate though. Seems like if the writers and animators are doubling down, then it's probably malice since Shadowheart is the #1 love interest for players.
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Yep, I was a big fan since Divine Divinity came out and stumped for them since then. Even their rough releases of the past, I still found the charm and effort in them and sympathized with their obstacles (ie the issues they had with Beyond Divinity, the strong arming they had with Divinity II, etc...).rusty_shackleford wrote: β April 15th, 2025, 15:32larian was basically the last developer that hadn't replaced me as their target customer β until BG3. I was there to buy larian's games when they were on the verge of bankruptcy. I even bought the weird RTS-cross-strategy game they made.
Always remember, businesses are not people and they are never your friend. If a developer makes a game you like that panders specifically to you β **** 'em, pirate it anyways. If you give them money it will be used to make a worse game targeted at people you hate.
A lot of developers, businesses in general, are quick to forget that they have a core customer base that has been buying their products for longer than most people they currently employ have even been there.
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With BG3, it is like they gave up and gave in. It was a game where I think the modders have way more talent and passion than Larian themselves.
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I might have to play the game again. But this time have a team consisting of Astarion, Lae'zel and Minthara and just kill off Shadowwhore.Vergil wrote: β May 30th, 2025, 22:52He's literally so cuteKOS-MOS wrote: β May 28th, 2025, 15:27@Vergil I decided to give grandpa Astarion another chance and removed that vampiresque mod.![]()
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Honestly? I'm starting to get used to him. I still don't get why he looks that old lore-wise, but oh well, that's fine I guess.Vergil wrote: β May 30th, 2025, 22:52He's literally so cuteKOS-MOS wrote: β May 28th, 2025, 15:27@Vergil I decided to give grandpa Astarion another chance and removed that vampiresque mod.![]()
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He's okay in my opinion. But his fan-girls irl are worst.KOS-MOS wrote: β May 31st, 2025, 18:33Honestly? I'm starting to get used to him. I still don't get why he looks that old lore-wise, but oh well, that's fine I guess.Vergil wrote: β May 30th, 2025, 22:52He's literally so cuteKOS-MOS wrote: β May 28th, 2025, 15:27@Vergil I decided to give grandpa Astarion another chance and removed that vampiresque mod.![]()
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Someone should make a mod that turns Astarion into a pretty girl.
Someone should make a mod that renames Astarion into Vegil and gives you the ability to stake him up the *** immediately.
Maybe, I don't interact with them so I can't really tellTrickster wrote: β May 31st, 2025, 18:57He's okay in my opinion. But his fan-girls irl are worst.KOS-MOS wrote: β May 31st, 2025, 18:33Honestly? I'm starting to get used to him. I still don't get why he looks that old lore-wise, but oh well, that's fine I guess.


